July 25, 2008

Forty and Beyond

If life begins at 40, I will be a year old in a matter of minutes. I will be crossing over from borderline, not-quite-there-yet forty to the very real 'ty-one. Greetings will come pouring in, my inbox will be swamped, and I will be well on my way to nearing the "middle ages." My middle ages.

When I was a lot younger and a lot more clueless, I thought forty and beyond was old. Ancient, in fact. I thought forty is when one stops growing pimples and starts growing fangs, when one is bogged down by children, by worries, by life to have time for anything else, when one is on the verge of retirement. I thought forty forbids comebacks: that at forty one can never bounce back, or start all over again.

Well, Gabby Concepcion is back, and to some degree I am swooning. "Forty and beyond" is not quite the sorry state that I thought it to be. There is still magic in full moons and sunsets. There is still wonder in stories and in a child's gaze. There is still true joy in friendships and in getting things done. There is eternal gratitude for love, for life, for renewal.

The clock is ticking, and soon I will be forty one. I have dietary (flab, oh flab!) and dermatological (laugh lines, not wrinkles) issues. But hey, this business of growing older and (I hope) wiser, is not so bad at all.

7 comments:

Rudy said...

Welcome to the middle ages, haha. Happy birthday, Anna... and remember, kalabaw lang daw ang tumatanda. :-)

Mel said...

hey mench, happy birthday! you're not alone, dear, coz im crossing the borderline in the near future too.

yup, it's not so bad to be in our forties. in fact, it's one of the most rewarding moments of my life, wrinkles, laughlines,bellies and all. life usually takes on a deeper meaning at this stage, when we begin to focus our time and attention to the things that truly matter, the things that are closest to our hearts and set our souls on fire.

Cheers,my friend! here's to a good health, more wisdom and meaningful relationships for you not only today but the rest of your life.

Annamanila said...

Sometimes I wish I were 40 again - but it wasn't really a particularly happy time for me. I have lived a lifetime since. I can't say exactly when life began making a turn for the better, but it did. I have tried to devote (almost) a whole blog site to describing the process, and can't really say if I succeeded in saying anything coherent.

Happy birthday, Anna. For you, the best is yet to be.

kayni said...

HAPPY BIRTHDAY! 41 is a baby =).

Lady Gardener said...

Happy birthday, menchie!

pillow_talk said...

happy (belated) birthday! wishing your more full moons and stories.

Cookie said...

Happy Birthday, Anna!! Ay naku, 40 is the new 30. Mataas na face value natin. Wrinkles and all :D

Have a good one!